One of the most exciting developments in our world over the past couple of months is that Bud has started reading. He is sounding out letters and slowly stringing them together until *PING* he recognizes them as words - "ba-ba-ih-baih-baih-ga-ba-ih-ga-ba-ih-g-baihg-BIG!"
He is VERY proud of himself, and there's just about nothing better than that. He's also really interested in the process. Part of his motivation comes from the fact that he has discovered a real utilitarian value to being able to spell out words: it allows him free reign to program the TiVo all by himself.
Last week as I was getting ready for work, Bud called up the stairs "Mama, I need help!"
"What do you need help with?" I called back.
"I need help to tape Jack's Big Music Show!"
It's not unusual for Bud to ask me to tape things for him, so I headed down the stairs to help him. I stopped short, though, when I entered the living room and saw the tv screen. Bud had used the miper to maneuver to the right screen to enter the program title (which is no easy task in itself), and then had clicked on each individual letter to type out the program he wanted to tape. On the screen in front of me was:
The boy is amazing. Since that time, he has mastered the art of Tivo as well as the spelling of Jack's Big Music Show, It's a Big Big World, Teletubbies, and Boohbah.
It's not all about the tv, though. Bud also loves books. He loves reading together, and he enjoys spending quiet time alone with his books looking at the pictures and talking to the pages. He is passionate about his favorites - and I have to say, he has good taste. I think I enjoy his favorites as much as he does.
And so, in tribute to Bud's emerging literacy, I present le creme de le creme: Bud's Best-Loved Books.
Daddy, Could I Have an Elephant? by Jake Wolf
This is hands-down Bud's favorite book. It follows a boy named Tony through his morning routine as he tries to entice his father with great ideas he has about different pets they could get. Tony's dad appears to be a single parent, which has prompted questions from Bud ("Where's Tony's mom go?") and has given me the opportunity to talk to him about the many different ways that you can make a family. Interestingly, in one of the illustrations we see a framed photo on the bedside table showing two adults and a child, prompting me to create my own elaborate backstory. (Yes, I know, I really need to get a life.)
And Here's To You! by David Elliott
This beautiful book is an instant classic, and it has become the gift I give to newborns to welcome them into the world. Bud adores its playful poetry and unique exploration of the animal kingdom. His favorite line: "Here's to the cats! The purring people - cats! Here's to the creeping ones - the get you when you're sleeping ones!" About a year ago I heard Bud "reading" the book to himself in the next room: "Here's to the cows! The GETCHU when you're sleeping ones! Here's to the bugs! The GETCHU when you're sleeping ones! Here's to the bears! The GETCHU when you're sleeping ones!" (Myself, I've never much cared for the get-you-while-you're-sleeping bears.)
Feast For Ten by Cathryn Falwell
This simple counting book was one of the first that Bud memorized and could "read" to me. He still loves it. He seems particularly drawn to the family dynamics, and eagerly points to each family member to determine the equivalent person in our own family. As this family has five children and we only have Bud, we have to employ cousins in our version of the story... but I suspect that that's all part of the fun.
Cows Can't Fly by David Milgrim
This book really captures Bud's imagination, as it tells the story of a boy whose picture of flying cows inspires an entire herd to take to the sky. Alas, none of the adults can be bothered to look UP, and the boy and his dog are the only witnesses to this magical event. I especially love the conversations that Bud and I have about the boy's mother, who is working with a power drill, and his grandmother, who is working as a mail carrier.
Giraffes Can't Dance by Giles Andreae
Two of Bud's very favorite things - jungle animals and dancing - are central to the plot of this beautiful book about being different. Bud loves the monkeys who cha-cha. I love the message that the story sends to my boy about finding his way in the world. And the best part is, I can finally read the whole thing out loud without getting choked up.
The New Adventures of Curious George by Margret and H.A. Rey
We took this book out of the library so many times that I just went ahead and bought a copy. The book is a compilation of more recent stories about everyone's favorite "good little monkey". The stories are as sweet as the originals, but have the added bonus of featuring doctors and mayors and other important people who are women and people of color. Though Bud enjoys every story, his favorites are Curious George Makes Pancakes and Curious George Goes to a Movie (and no, the irony has not been lost on me.)
Caps for Sale: A Tale of a Peddler, Some Monkeys and Their Monkey Business by Esphyr Slobodkina
I loved this book when I was Bud's age, and I love that he loves it just as much as I did. It is a gentle story that reads like (and may well be) a traditional folk tale. Bud loves the monkey-see, monkey-do shenanigans on which the plot turns, and we both delight in shouting out the peddler's lines together... okay, the peddler's lines AND the monkeys'.
The Best Picnic Ever by Clare Jarrett
Bud loves that the main character in this book is named Jack, especially now that he can READ the word "Jack"... as in, Jack's Big Music Show. But he also loves that as Jack waits for his mom to prepare their picnic, he passes the time playing with a giraffe... and an elephant... and a leopard... Now THAT is Bud's idea of a good time! As long as we're just pretending.
Just Another Morning by Linda Ashman
This book gorgeously, delightfully crawls inside a young boy's imagination and takes us along on his wild, exciting morning expedition. Sometimes when Bud and I read the book we talk about how the "giant" is really the boy's Daddy and how the "monster" is really the vacuum cleaner, and Bud scurries to find his own "wild" animals so that he, too, can sleep in a zoo. But most of the time we just hold on tight and enjoy the adventure.
Peanut Butter Rhino by Vincent Andriani
P.J. Funnybunny Camps Out by Marilyn Sadler
These are two seemingly unrelated books, but in my mind they are connected. Peanut Butter Rhino tells the story Rhino, who is preparing for a picnic when he accidentally (an unknowingly) sits on his peanut butter sandwich. He spend the story looking for his sandwich, while Bud squeals with glee, "It's on his BUM!"
In P.J. Funnybunny Camps Out, P.J. and his male friends go camping and exclude the girls, saying "Camping is not for girls." However, in a twist ending (don't keep reading if you don't want to ruin the surprise) we discover that the girls have posed as ghosts and scared the boys, proving that the boys may not be as tough as they thought... nor the girls as weak.
Neither of the books is particularly compelling to me as a work of children's literature. But they are both invaluable learning tools as I work with Bud on perspective-taking. As Bud and I read them together, it is easy to talk about how we know where the peanut butter sandwich is ("On his BUM!"), but how Rhino thinks it might be up that tree or in this cave. We have similar conversations about the fact that we know that Honeybunny and Donna Duck were pretending to be ghosts, but that P.J. and his friends believe that the ghosts were real. Bud continues to struggle with the concepts, but the allure of these books keeps him engaged in the conversation.
So there you have it - the best in books from Bud and me. Lots of other books go in and out of vogue, but these are the ones that continue to find themselves on the bedside table. We hope you liked our choices and, hey - thanks for reading!